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How to Help Haiti

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Help Haiti after 7.0 Earthquake. American Red Cross (www.Redcross.org)  Samaritan’s Purse (www.SamaritansPurse.com), check Twitter and Facebook. Post your prayer here.

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January 13, 2010 at 8:39 am

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I Hate That Word

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I’m still musing on “Submission” in light of Jesus’ baptism. No need for baptism there, nevertheless… It was the theme of his most amazing life and ministry. “Not my will,” he said.

Submission does not fit into western culture today. The idea is repelling. Yet everybody does in one way or another. My story about Esti Barak’s daughter’s deployment to Iraq leaving her daughter with Esti is a classic modern example. Submission to military leaders to the point of leaving your baby behind is HUGE! But most people submit to employers, etc. We just don’t like the word. Me neither.

Disliking the word is stumbling block to a kind of greatness that is manifest in Jesus life. Jesus’ life WAS REALLY GREAT in spite of submission and conflict. He really did change the world.

I want to throw the word out and use a more euphemistic term like listening. Listening is good. But it lacks the radical action edge.

See, the discussion about submission takes time away from getting to the meat. Doing what God wants won’t hurt us. God wants the best for our lives, right? You bet! The problem is that we think we know better than God, and perhaps God can’t be trusted, after all God may ask you to do something unpleasant, like quit your job move to Africa where you will be deprived of your dreams and loved one, sort of like the military.

In reality that is not likely. God might ask you to do some outrageous things, but you would be better for it and so would the world.

But what if we just submitted to the little things like truly loving our neighbor, caring for their hurt and pain, sharing our groceries with them, getting them some medical care, helping them find a job, putting up with their idiosyncrasy, digging them a well, buying them a cow or a goat, hugging them… spending time and money on them. Or how about submitting your attitude to see the possible, being positive, seeing the world through loving eyes in stead of judgmental negativity?

Experiment with submission. If God where to ask you to do one thing, just one thing today that did not involve leaving your child behind and moving to a war torn part of the world, what would it be? I’d like to know.

I love you-Bryan

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January 11, 2010 at 7:32 am

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Who Wants To Live To Be Healthy and 100+

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It was a bad TV night. We didn’t get home until late and retired to our bedroom immediately. It was cold in the house and our bed was the warmest place to be. We just needed a few minutes to wind down so we flip on the TV. NOTHING! So we turned to TED.COM to find something short and sweet.
 
What we found was amazing. The title was “How to Live to Be 100.” Now my father-in-law Jack always says, “I’m ready to go but just not on the next bus.” I noticed that Jack is never standing at the bus stop waiting for the bus to heaven. Can I tell you a secret… I think Jack is willing to stick around as long as he can if he is relatively healthy.
 
Most healthy people want to live as long as they can. The video that Jennifer and I watched showed how people who are over 100 years old did it.
 
What was so interesting to me was not the fact that they live to be 100+ but how they lived, what they ate, and very interesting to me was the sense of community they enjoyed, and their purpose for life. I hope you will check out this 20 minute presentation and get back to me about with your comments.
 
I love you – Bryan

Love your neighbor – Help One

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January 8, 2010 at 10:20 am

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Balance Is the Goal of Most New Year Plans. How Do You Achieve Balance?

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“Balance” is the ability to manage all the pressure of life and have a high level of happiness at the same time.  There are only four (4) major pressures that bear down on you to knock you off balance. They are…
1)      Your economy. This includes anything that has to do with money from your job to your mortgage, your income and your expenses, your savings and your vacation… anything related to money. These days most people have significant financial pressure.
2)      Your family and friends. This includes your nuclear family, your extended family, and your significant friends. Anybody who has been married for more than 5 minutes realizes that there is a lot of pressure from family.
3)      Your health or lack of it. The old saying is “If you have your health, you have everything.” Unfortunately everybody encounters health issues. I further identify three sub health areas; Mental health, physical health, and addictions. Just about everyone knows someone who is struggling in one of these three areas.
4)      Your culture. The pressure of culture is the most insidious of the four because it is often unseen and most people are unaware of the pressure that is put on them by their predominate culture; the values, priorities, practices, ritual, and other things that direct their action. Every organization, school, ethnic group, religion, etc, has a value ladened way of dictating appropriate action and ways of being. Cross the invisible thin red line of appropriated behavior for that sub group and you encounter pressure to conform.
How you achieve balance in the face of these incredibly powerful pressures is no secret.  Like a gyroscope or a basketball spinning on the player’s finger, it is the spin that keeps the balance. That spin among human beings is love. Love provides the energy to keep you going under all the pressure.
Want to hear more. Just let me know and I will tell you exactly what love is and you get more of it in your life.
I love you – Bryan

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January 7, 2010 at 10:14 am

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It Is the First Monday of the New Year, What Shall You Do?

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It is the first Monday of the New Year. What shall you do? Here’s my list; borrow freely.

First, I believe just being alive is a special gift for which I am thankful.

Second, I believe that I can make a difference and, more than that, it is my personal responsibility to make a difference at least is some little way, and, I chose to do so.

Third, I will focus on what can be done, and move forward in a step wise process.

Fourth, I will stick to my schedule and not be distracted from my scheduled tasks. In other words I will have a disciplined approach to my day.

Fifth, I will give back. I have been given much and I have the duty, honor and privilege to give back in some significant and meaningful way, money or love, things or actions I will give back today.

Sixth, I will love and allow myself to be love. Love is the energy that drive all good things and I will perpetuate the spin of it.

Seventh, I will be action oriented and I will be reflective, too. I will remember the good, be thankful and plan for the best.

This is the day the Lord has made I will rejoice and be glad in it.

Would you like to add to my list?

I love you- Bryan Martin

Love your neighbor

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January 4, 2010 at 9:02 am

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